One ‘no’ and your toddler is on the floor, screaming, and everyone in the store is watching.
What’s usually happening
Tantrums happen when big feelings flood a little body that can’t handle them yet. Your child isn’t trying to ruin your day. They need your calm to find their own.
Try this
- 1Calm yourself first. Take a breath and soften your face.
- 2Stay close and keep your words few. Don’t reason in the middle of it.
- 3Hold the boundary, then reconnect with a hug when it’s over.
What to say
- “I’m right here. You’re safe.”
- “You really wanted that. It’s hard to hear no.”
- “When you’re ready, I’ll give you a hug.”
As a mother comforts her son, so I will comfort you.
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